By Neo Kolane
A local author who always had a passion for writing, is now gone into teaching the public about relationships and how love is a beautiful thing, through a book titled ‘Getting Played’.
The book was published on January 6 on Amazon Kindle ebook and on January 10 in Lesotho.
Mohosho Pofane’s first book titled ‘Getting played’ is a book about the ultimate guide to a healthy relationship, as the name suggests, it is a book about relationships and dating.
Pofane, who was born at Ha Mokhehle, Teyateyaneng, said he has always been passionate about writing and political activism.
“I joined and led several political organisations in both high school and university. I, however, started writing for a school magazine in mid-school then for several local publications as a freelancer.
He also won several writing awards including the latest United Nations Essay Competition on UN75TH birthday.
“It’s a risk that most of us take over and over again with the hope of finding the perfect partner with whom we’re willing to spend the rest of our lives. Someone who will make the love journey worthwhile.
“While we are searching, we end up in toxic situations, being played or ghosted, as a result, we end up looking at the whole notion of love differently.
“Some people give in to the cruelty and play the game too, while others keep hoping for a good partner and try over and over again.
Pofane said ‘Getting Played’ provides readers with the difference; it’s often said that the world does not reward those who play by the rules, so wouldn’t it be great if we know the difference between people who come to us to play and those who come with genuinely good intentions.
“I have had gents complain that my book gives the game away, the same gents who have scores of female best friends that they discuss everything about relationships with on a daily basis, from dating advice to lying about other gents with the hope that at one point they’ll get their chances with those women. My book is a different best-friend because it has no personal agenda.
Pofane also mentioned that ‘Getting Played’ will teach people everything they need to know to avoid getting their hearts broken because it does not only address players, but it also touches on general dating, which eliminates the perception that it only speaks to women and girls.
“A lot of people encouraged me while I was writing my book; my family, friends and my partner. It was inspired by many things but, above them all, was the birth of my niece. I figured she would need someone to give her advice on relationships and dating when she grows up and I might not be there to do it.
“Then I decided to make it about everyone else who may need tips on how not to get played.” He concluded.
